Question by : Can someone tell me what happenned ?

Hi all. I’ve been hanging around with a guy for about 2 months. He was flirting a lot (and I mean a lot), I was friendly and kind of reserved but I really like him. One day I made the 1st move but got rejected. He told me that he sees me as a friend and that these things can only happen between two people who want the same things. Next day I wrote him a letter, saying clearly that I wanted a relationship with him (and not just sex) but if he wants us to stay friends, let’s stay friends. Then I went away on a trip and came back, didn’t call him, didn’t bother him at all. Today he knocked at my door (we are neighbours), rushed in and told me he wants to talk about what happenned. I told him “I know you don’t want a relationship with me, there is nothing to talk about”. He said “Having just sex and having a relationship is quite the same thing, there is no difference. I rejected you, so what? These things happen all the time. I’ve been rejected too. Let’s stay friends.” I replied “Yes, I know that. We can hang out for a beer or something”. (Note: he almost never invited me to do anything else but go out for a beer). He told me that I underestimate our friendship and that I want to revenge on him by saying that. I said “What friendship? Friends don’t do what you did. You were flirting wildly with me, like poking in my shoulder, staring at my lips, staring at me while we were with someone else’s company, touching me all the time and one day you even slightly touched my breast while pretending to say sth about the car belt.” Then he smiled, looked puzzled and said that this is all in my imagination. Then I asked him “Why are you here today? You were flattered by me making the 1st move, you enjoyed rejecting me and now you enjoy hurting me again. You ‘re a player, a coward and an asshole and get out!” And so he did. The thing now is that I am puzzled. I didn’t want to throw him out like this but I felt that he was torturing me and it was horrible. Does he wants us to be friends ? What does he want, can anyone tell me ? What should I do ? Please be honest. Thanks.
Ps. I’ve seen him how he is with other women, he doesn’t act like he did with me.

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Best answer:

Answer by Timmeh Thompson
i think you took it the wrong way, mabye thats just how he acts normally… or he finds you attractive and just wants sex

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